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What is Desire?
Desire is an immensely powerful force that courses through our veins, igniting a light within us that cannot be extinguished. It is the...
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Feb 282 min read
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A Reflection On Shame
In the BDSM community, I encounter people with every kind of kink and fetish imaginable. Often, I hear stories of these desires remaining hidden, or there is a strong curiosity to experience, to learn, to listen. This has led me to reflect on our sexual secrets—the ones we hide from others and, more importantly, the ones we hide from ourselves or have lived in the shadows for years. This may explain why Fet and X has gained such popularity; it offers a platform where individu
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Oct 173 min read
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More than "Yes Mistress": The power of proactive service
I decided to write this reflection piece on "Beyond Yes Mistress" for new submissives. What you are about to read reflects my personal experiences and observations, as well as what I value in a dynamic. The beauty of this dynamic is personal, and other Dommes will have their own standards and priorities. Listen to the person you choose to serve. In my view, and for the purpose of this writing, understand this: the word "yes. Mistress" is merely compliance. I welcome perspecti
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Oct 145 min read
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Thought of the Day - From Humiliation to Empowerment: The Unexpected Fuel of a Trigger Word.
A nurturing Domme explores humiliation's unexpected power. A playful "weak" sparks her sub's defiant energy, revealing how absolute trust transforms a degrading word into a catalyst for empowerment. This consensual deconstruction proves that the sharpest tools, used with care, can unlock profound strength.
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Sep 243 min read
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The Ethical Evolution of the Dominatrix and Financial Domination
As I embark on my research purely out of curiosity about the evolution of dominatrices, it is fascinating to trace this intriguing...
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Jul 175 min read
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Fluid Archetypes: The Unspoken Language of Power Play
In my everyday life, I embrace a variety of roles: entrepreneur, consultant, and artist. These roles are guided by a project’s level of...
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Jul 164 min read
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Scratching the Surface of Jungian Theory: My Thoughts on Shadow Play
With four hours to spare on my flight to Tokyo, I decided to make good use of the time by doing some writing. Writing is an important way...
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May 265 min read
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The Power of Presence: What Sets a Great Dominatrix Apart?
Lady EllaBe in Sydney In the world of BDSM, a great Dominatrix stands out not only for her commanding presence but also for her ability...
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May 56 min read
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Why Do Some Seek Pleasure in ASMR? The Sensory Experience
In my personal exploration of ASMR (autonomic sensory meridian response), I have been trying to learn more about this experience that...
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Apr 152 min read
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What Makes a Great Male Submissive: I found out last week
After an intense two months of work, I finally have time to write and enjoy some downtime. Reflecting on my recent experiences, I've come...
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Apr 22 min read
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The Dominatrix Balance: External Validation vs. Internal Affirmation
I was contemplating today about the delicate balance in a D/S relationship and the importance of maintaining a healthy balance as a Domme...
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Mar 233 min read
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The Art of Courtesans
Lady Ellabe photo by Hajime Kinoko Exploring the captivating history and cultural significance of courtesans sheds light on the...
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Mar 183 min read
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Edge you to SONIC BOOM!
Narrated by Lady EllaBe Do you want to feel a Boom or a Sonic Boom? That's the intense sensation I envision when contemplating the...
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Mar 43 min read
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The Evolution of a Mistress
Wearing : William Wilde, Lucie Latex, Libedex, Simon O latex The evolution of a Mistress, this year has been a journey of discovery, one...
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Mar 26 min read
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Do men and women love high heels for the same reason?
High heels these stunning gravity- defying wonders that makes most of us drool.
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Mar 24 min read
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The Power of Time and Patience: Mind-Blowing Experiences
This journal entry is inspired by an article about Sting, who shared his experience of a seven-hour tantric sex session. It got me...
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Mar 13 min read
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The Therapeutic Power of BDSM
I have often found myself deeply reflecting on why I am so drawn to engaging with individuals within the BDSM community. There is...
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Feb 284 min read
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In my Dungeon
First of all, as someone who loves all senses, my Dungeon palace will integrate all elements. Let me write this as if I am taking you on...
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Feb 284 min read
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The mind of a sub : My passion for Dominatrix and Latex
We use pseudonym names in all interviews. The mind of a sub : My passion for Dominatrix and Latex. This is the story of Robert and his...
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Feb 286 min read
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Intrigued
Have you ever been intrigued by a word? I recently found myself thinking about the word ‘intrigue,’ it’s a word that is so mysterious ,...
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Feb 282 min read
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